Who is this person that I see
Reflected, staring back at me
Looks like a girl I used to know
But bits have changed and moved and grown
My mind’s eye playing tricks on me
Only picturing how I used to be
Thin, young, bright fresh-faced
Now it seems she’s been replaced

Heavy bags now under eye
Crows feet appear each time I smile
Where on earth are those chins from?
Now there’s 3 where once was one
Colouring more than a little grey
Complexion has seen much better days
What’s that I spy amongst my hair
Shiny greys, they’re everywhere

Middle Ground has more than doubled
My clothes are tight, I’m in real trouble
I need to pull my shoulders back
Stand up straight to tighten slack
There’s things I know that I must change
To stop the growth of my rear end
I’m sucking in I really am
But this spread keeps overflowing spanx

I pull and squish the face in front of me
The former me, disappeared it seems
Parenthood and age has changed my view
I’m not sure I like all that’s new
I’m not the girls I used to be
When there’s comparison to what I used to see
Underneath I’m still the same
The person I am has not really changed



My Happy Place

Deep breath
Eyes closed
Waves lapping on the shore
Warm sun on my face
Giggles from treasures playing in the sand

Deep breath
Eyes closed
Dewy ground under feet
Meadows of wild flowers swaying in the breeze
Tinkling of treasures running in the woods

Deep breath
Eyes closed
Flashing lights in a spin
Candy floss, hot dogs and fast rides
Screams of treasures filled with sugar and treats

Deep breath
Eyes closed
Alarms waking us from slumber
School shoes, changing bags and car keys
Tired sighs of treasures ready for the day

Deep breath
Eyes closed
Through the fog and darkness
Chaos of the everyday
Tight squeezes from my treasures reminding me they’re my happy place




A glance
Through a sea of strangers
A quick glimpse
When unfamiliar eyes meet

A silent pull
Through visible barriers
An energy
Shared connection for that moment in time

A shy smile
Causing hearts to beat a little faster
Mirrored, returned
Warmth on cheeks as the blush reaches

A glance, a smile
A sigh
Happy in the fleeting moment of promise
As the train pulls away.






Bird song in the early morn’
Thick toast covered in butter and jam
A meadow of flowers growing wild
Waves lapping on the shore
Warm sun on your face
A walk in the park
The smell of suntan cream, reminding you of summer days
Watching the rain
A roaring fire
Toasted marshmallows
Good times with friends
The smell of freshly cut grass
Curling up with a book you can’t put down
Holding hands
Sunsets and sunrise
Crisp fresh bedding
Singing along to your favourite song
A smile
Watching your kids playing, learning, giggling
Small adventures
Making memories
Letting go
Creating happiness




What to expect at the Horrible Histories, Blitzed Britain Exhibition

Now, I’m not usually one to tell you what you should or shouldn’t do or where you should or shouldn’t visit. When I tell you about our days out it’s just to give you an idea of what we got up to and the fun we had so that you might fancy a trip there too. I am going to make an exception here and insist. Yes insist that you go and visit the Imperial War Museum North.

We had never been before, it’s somewhere that was on my radar of places to go but it didn’t really appeal to me as something that might be suitable for my just turned 7-year-old. The baby, he’s easily entertained being pushed round in his buggy with a rich tea for a treat.

Oh how wrong I was.

Last weekend we were kindly invited to have a good old nosy at the new Horrible Histories, Blitzed Britain exhibition. The munchkin was very excited, although we’d not really ever gone into too much detail about World War 2 with her and she’s only ever looked at Horrible Histories at school.

The exhibition is fantastic. Rattus Rattus, of Horrible Histories fame, leads you on a journey through what it was like to live during the Blitz, which is German for lightening don’t you know (Mr C and I didn’t!) There is a Survival Guide that takes you through the exhibition, each page refers to a different section, there are questions, spaces to draw what you’ve seen and letters to collect and scramble (you get a free juice if you collect all the letters). It doesn’t matter if you don’t follow them in number order (we didn’t) and each page reinforces the main learning point, yes be prepared for you and the kids to learn things (unless you are WW2 experts)

Horrible Histories Blitzed Britain

The Survival Guide leads you through the exhibition

It’s very interactive, there are buttons to press, things to listen to, touch screens to play mini games on, videos and clips to watch, things to smell, things to read. It’s bright, colourful considering the subject and informative in a way that children can understand.

Horrible Histories Blitzed Britain Exhibition

Keep Calm and Carry On

In the kitchen we found out about rationing and what people could and couldn’t have. The sniff saucepans give an idea of typical concoctions people would eat. The touch screens get you to fry yourself a tasty dish with limited ingredients, including a bar of soap and a very cute hedgehog.

Learning all about rationing at the Horrible Histories Blitzed Britain exhibition

In the Kitchen you learn about rationing, guess the concoctions  by smelling the pans and create your own dish using limited ingredients

Taking shelter under the kitchen table

Can’t get to a shelter? Take cover under your kitchen table

In the garden we learnt how people were encouraged to grow their own vegetables, and feed your left overs to pigs. There is a short film all about it (about 2 minutes) projected onto a giant pair of bloomers hanging on a washing line. The munchkin had a chance to see if she could cycle as quick as a pigeon flew to give messages, she couldn’t, those pigeons are fast! She thought peeking at the little boy in the outside loo was hilarious!

Learning about gardens, growing your own veg and smeilling rotten left overs to feed the pigs

Learning about how families were encouraged to grow their own vegetables and keep pigs. Finding the idea of an outside loo hilarious!

We found out about black outs and spotted obstacles in a blacked out street with a UV torch. There is also a great touch screen game where you have to tap on the hazards in a blackout. The munchkin was not happy until she could beat her daddy’s score!

Playing a find the Hazards in a Blackout game

Finding all the hazards in a black out. Not happy until she beat her daddy’s score

We stood in an Anderson shelter, I hadn’t realised how small they were and we found out what happened during an air raid.

Anderson or Underground during an air raid?

Learning about where people went to find shelter during an air raid

The munchkins favourite bit was finding out about being an evacuee, learning about why children were evacuated and where to. She enjoyed listening to real life stories through the ‘phones’ (which were also in other parts of the exhibition) and reading the letters some children might have sent home. She also enjoyed milking the cow, who had been painted with stripes (you find out the reason why) and dressing up as an evacuee, there was a whole dress up area with different outfits to try.

Learning about being an evacuee

Channelling how sad an evacuee would feel

Learning about life as an evacuee

Learning about life as an evacuee in the countryside

Dressing up as an Evacuee

Evacuee with name tag like Paddington included

There is a great section on the Dads army, jobs you could do during the war and about jobs animals did too. You even get to test how steady your hands are to defuse a bomb.

Testeing her bomb disposal skills

Testing her bomb disposal skills.

At the end you had the opportunity to test your knowledge and draw or write what you had learnt about the blitz to ‘rebuild’ a wall, a very symbolic and fitting end to the exhibition.

Horrible Histories Blitzed Britain

Rebuilding after the Blitz

Lots of the information, video clips, sound clips and artefacts in the exhibition tell the story of how Manchester and the North West was affected during the Blitz which really bought the information to life. There was so much to see, I’ve really not even scratched the surface with the things to do, to read, the facts and the details in each area, I’ll leave that for you to discover when you go.

We had a great day, there was lots of other things we got up to at the museum, so much I’m going to save it for another post. We will definitely be going back over the summer holidays. The museum and the exhibition, which will run until next year, are free with donations welcome. I really can’t recommend it enough.

Horrible Histories Blitzed Britain at the Imperial War Museum North

Horrible Histories Blitzed Britain


For more information why not visit the Imperial War Museum North website

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